{"id":62,"date":"2007-07-31T01:07:35","date_gmt":"2007-07-31T06:07:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.parentofachildwithalbinism.com\/2007\/welcome-to-holland\/"},"modified":"2007-07-31T01:07:35","modified_gmt":"2007-07-31T06:07:35","slug":"welcome-to-holland","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parentofachildwithalbinism.com\/?p=62","title":{"rendered":"Welcome to Holland"},"content":{"rendered":"<p align=\"center\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p align=\"left\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><font size=\"3\"><font color=\"#000000\">I found this beautiful story from a link on another parent&#8217;s website. Thank you Cassandra. It&#8217;s another way of looking at or describing what it&#8217;s like for parents who have a child who is different in some way.  To me, it is also a reminder that you never know what God has planned for you.<\/font><\/font><\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><font size=\"3\"> _________________________________________________________________<\/font><\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><strong><font color=\"#800000\"><font size=\"5\"><br \/>\nWELCOME TO HOLLAND<\/font><\/font><\/strong><\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><strong><font color=\"#800000\">by<\/font><\/strong><\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><strong><font color=\"#800000\">Emily Perl Kingsley.<\/font><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><font color=\"#800000\">c1987 by Emily Perl Kingsley.<br \/>\nAll rights reserved<\/font><\/strong><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><strong><font color=\"#800000\">I am often asked to describe the experience of raising a child with a  disability &#8211; to try to help people who have not shared that unique experience to  understand it, to imagine how it would feel. It&#8217;s like this&#8230;&#8230;<\/font><\/strong><\/p>\n<p align=\"center\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><strong><font color=\"#800000\">When you&#8217;re going to have a baby, it&#8217;s like planning a fabulous vacation trip  &#8211; to Italy. You buy a bunch of guide books and make your wonderful plans. The  Coliseum. The Michelangelo David. The gondolas in Venice. You may learn some  handy phrases in Italian. It&#8217;s all very exciting.<\/font><\/strong><\/p>\n<p align=\"center\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><strong><font color=\"#800000\">After months of eager anticipation, the day finally arrives. You pack your  bags and off you go. Several hours later, the plane lands. The stewardess comes  in and says, &#8220;Welcome to Holland.&#8221;<\/font><\/strong><\/p>\n<p align=\"center\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><strong><font color=\"#800000\">&#8220;Holland?!?&#8221; you say. &#8220;What do you mean Holland?? I signed up for Italy! I&#8217;m  supposed to be in Italy. All my life I&#8217;ve dreamed of going to Italy.&#8221;<\/font><\/strong><\/p>\n<p align=\"center\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><strong><font color=\"#800000\">But there&#8217;s been a change in the flight plan. They&#8217;ve landed in Holland and  there you must stay.<\/font><\/strong><\/p>\n<p align=\"center\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><strong><font color=\"#800000\">The important thing is that they haven&#8217;t taken you to a horrible, disgusting,  filthy place, full of pestilence, famine and disease. It&#8217;s just a different  place.<\/font><\/strong><\/p>\n<p align=\"center\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><strong><font color=\"#800000\">So you must go out and buy new guide books. And you must learn a whole new  language. And you will meet a whole new group of people you would never have  met.<\/font><\/strong><\/p>\n<p align=\"center\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><strong><font color=\"#800000\">It&#8217;s just a different place. It&#8217;s slower-paced than Italy, less flashy than  Italy. But after you&#8217;ve been there for a while and you catch your breath, you  look around&#8230;. and you begin to notice that Holland has windmills&#8230;.and  Holland has tulips. Holland even has Rembrandts.<\/font><\/strong><\/p>\n<p align=\"center\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><strong><font color=\"#800000\">But everyone you know is busy coming and going from Italy&#8230; and they&#8217;re all  bragging about what a wonderful time they had there. And for the rest of your  life, you will say &#8220;Yes, that&#8217;s where I was supposed to go. That&#8217;s what I had  planned.&#8221; <\/font><\/strong><\/p>\n<p align=\"center\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><strong><font color=\"#800000\">And the pain of that will never, ever, ever, ever go away&#8230; because the loss  of that dream is a very very significant loss.<\/font><\/strong><\/p>\n<p align=\"center\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><strong><font color=\"#800000\">But&#8230; if you spend your life mourning the fact that you didn&#8217;t get to Italy,  you may never be free to enjoy the very special, the very lovely things &#8230;  about Holland.<\/font><\/strong><\/p>\n<p align=\"center\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><strong><font color=\"#800000\"> <\/font><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; I found this beautiful story from a link on another parent&#8217;s website. Thank you Cassandra. It&#8217;s another way of looking at or describing what it&#8217;s like for parents who have a child who is different in some way. 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